is a six-month mentorship, mastermind, and brotherhood journey to fully embody your ALIVE ALIGNED ABUNDANT power while reprogramming your nervous system, alchemizing your core wounds, and harnessing your erotic life force.

Brother, it is time to open your heart, grab your balls, and give your full F*CK YES to this life.

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- From Emergence Graduates -

Thomas Doochin

Startup Founder,

Men‘s Work Facilitator

Jake Tacher


Sales Director

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Theo Tehrani - Marketing Expert

I’ve done a lot of men's work and the container of Emergence is by far the most memorable, powerful, and impactful mens work I’ve been involved with.

Derek Washington - Author & Musician

My life has been impacted in ways that I could only have dreamed of, offering portals into new iterations of me that I am falling more deeply in love with.


Own your purpose and deepest truth while creating with confidence and clarity. No more abandoning who you are to succeed.


Activate your creative ​potential with freedom and ​trust so you can truly ​embody abundance in all ​aspects of your life - money, ​sex, health, and love. No ​more pushing yourself from ​a place of scarcity.


Harness your erotic life force. Empower your sexuality. Unleash your primal nature as a service to humanity.

No more Mr. Nice Guy.

"Sounds great.

But how do I actually do that?"

The 5 Shifts that EMERGENCE men make to ​step into ALIGNED, ALIVE, ABUNDANCE

The shifts are simple, but not easy. They require commitment, leaning into brotherhood, ​and using the tools and mentorship provided.

Our promise is that if you truly welcome these 5 shifts into your life you will have a ​fundamentally new experience of purpose, sex, money, and relationships.

The program is designed to embed these 5 shifts so deeply that they reprogram your ​nervous system for lasting change.

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SLOW DOWN TO THE SPEED OF LIFE Create space for what truly matters in alignment with rhythms of nature
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by powerhouse Brothers and Mentors who will mirror your greatness and keep you on track. Cut the individualist bullsh*t and start getting support, for real.

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Connect with your body and your desires while rewiring your physiology and harnessing your sexuality for alignment and easeful productivity.

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Take radical ownership of ​your shadows. Our greatest ​gifts are hiding in our ​deepest wounds. Releasing ​shame is critical to getting ​out of our own way.

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Self-love is f*cking hard but essential to making lasting change in our lives and impact in the world.

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Ben Raya

Tantra Facilitator,


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The Emergence Methodology

We create a Transformational Goal This is your your big rock The game changer We support you on getting clear on this measurable achievable yet ambitious goal that represents a massive uplevel in your life and impacts everything else This is the goal that if nothing else was accomplished over 5 months would represent a HUGE WIN Here s the thing The current version of you both on an identity and nervous system level is not compatible with this goal Otherwise it would already be here in your life So we get clear on who you need to become in order for accomplishing this goal to be inevitable Then we instill the tools and practices of The 5 Shifts to uplevel your identity body biology and neurochemistry to the level of your goal As you work towards your Transformational Goal everything and we mean everything that is not compatible with your goal will rise to the surface The tools group sessions and brotherhood support and accountability systems are specifically designed to help you meet embrace and alchemize the mental emotional and nervous system blocks The practices and tools are there to embed and integrate The 5 Shifts into your life
The Emergence journey was a deep and transformative experience I am now able to courageously share my whole self with the world without fear or regret so that I may have an even bigger and more beautiful impact on others
Sam Sadin Massage Therapist
I could say infinite things about this brotherhood and the men facilitating it but I will leave it at this No matter where you are if you feel the call to go deeper into the mystery and learn to love life more show up more authentically and continue to become the man that you wish to become and already are there is no better container than this
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  • Successful entrepreneur - you have massive capacity and ability to create but ​your business has taken over your life. The stress and anxiety is making you sick. ​You know that you will never realize your true potential unless you take a stand for ​your self-love and pleasure.

  • Solo creator- you have taken the leap into your calling, but hit a plateau. You feel ​stuck or isolated in your work and in an endless cycle of hustle that is killing your ​passion. You are ready to up-level & live in financial abundance.

  • High performer - you're tired of chasing success. You've learned to play the ​game but the hamster wheel and following the other people's rules leaves you ​feeling empty. You are ready for more alignment, to clarify your calling and channel ​your gifts towards what truly matters. Make the hamster wheel your b*tch.

Or, you simply believe that a council of powerhouse brothers and mentors is ​EXACTLY what you need to step into the next phase of your life.

Are you ready

to take flight?

THE EMERGENCE JOURNEY 6 months journey Online meetings in person immersions In depth group sessions mastermind pods Weekly office hours for ongoing support Tools and practices that embed the 5 Shifts Atilla Spencer as dedicated guides
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Your Guides

Atilla Spencer have devoted themselves to the emerging masculine paradigm helping men open their hearts grab their balls and give their gifts fully to this life On purpose In service Their style bridges the subtle and primal Their approach blends somatic attunement tantra shadow alchemy and breakthrough coaching that ultimately reprograms the nervous system Their work is also informed by their successful academic business start up backgrounds



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Atilla is here to support all beings in unleashing their soul purpose onto the world through workshops, immersions, coaching, and mischief. With his training in tantra, conscious kink, Erotic Blueprints, sacred medicine, dance, and shadow-work, Atilla helps reprogram nervous systems to allow and embody the full range of the ecstatic expression of their life force. He has a PhD in social psychology, and has spent prior lifetimes designing large scale social programs that empower millions to lead fully aligned lives. Atilla is also faculty apprentice with the International School of Temple Arts.

Sweetness of truth, ruthlessness of love.



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Spencer is a creative entrepreneur, leadership ​guide, and tantra teacher and facilitator. His ​greatest passion is helping humans to tap into ​and unleash their unique genius while feeling ​fully alive, aligned, and abundant. His training ​covers coaching, tantra, craniosacral therapy, ​breathwork, somatic trauma release, and ​various movement arts. As a coach, he has had ​the privilege of helping others birth some ​amazing things - including working with the ​founding teams of startups that have raised ​over $25M and serving on the board of ​multiple companies.

As an entrepreneur, he founded - an ​organization responsible for coaching ​thousands of leaders at people-first ​organizations. He is here to help you love the ​f*ck out of yourself and your life.

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Why Mentorship & Brotherhood in the same container?

Many 1-1 coaching programs offer insight and awareness but still leave men feeling isolated & lacking the support to integrate and embody the shifts they experience in their 1-1 sessions.

Real transformation requires consistency. We need an integrated web of support - a brotherhood - to have our backs, mirror our greatness and our shadows, and ride alongside our journey in a way that cements change over time.

We are NOT meant to do it alone.

What makes Emergence

truly different?

We are NOT here to tell you how to be a man We are here to unleash your unique greatness and help you heal your specific wounds
Our work is somatically attuned as well as trauma informed reprogramming the nervous system for lasting change
We are not afraid to talk about sexuality heal sexual wounds and celebrate sexual energy We will support you in integrated channeling of your eros
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"Spencer and Atilla bring a deep sense of commitment and craft to doing penetrative ​personal work and the craft of initiating true intimacy in human transformation. Atilla ​brings such passion and felt love - embodying an expansive inspiration to the container. ​His leadership is held in fervent optimism and compassionate awareness, bringing a focus ​to the delicacy of human relating. Spencer holds a deep shamanic archetype of the soul ​warrior, bringing both intensity and integrity, holding the container together. Both are ​committed stewards of transforming collective and individual shadow and acting as ​models and celebrators of sexual healing, liberation of the human spirit. Their work was ​one of the fundamental peak experiences in my life. I felt liberated held and transformed."

- Lucien Vattel

"I’ve done a lot of mens work and the container of Emergence is by far the most ​memorable, powerful, and impactful mens work I’ve been involved with. Atilla & Spencer ​know the nuances and difficulties of what it means to be a man in a society where things ​change so fast. They are skillful shadow workers who showed me that they have the ​experience to go to the depths with me and hold me with loving and attentive presence as ​I did my own inner work. This container is the perfect initiation for any man feeling the ​call for deeper understanding of yourself, in service of transformation and getting more ​of what you want in your life."

- Theo Tehrani

“Spencer and Atilla together are a solid team. I experience their facilitation and ​leadership is of the highest integrity, while simultaneously being lighthearted. You can ​clearly see their dedication to the work!”

- Mathias Hudgens

"I decided to join Emergence last year during my integration phase following an ISTA ​retreat. I found that it really helped me stay in my emotionally healthy zone - as old tho​ught patterns would begin to reassert themselves I would have one of my weekly Emerg​ence meetings and it kept me on course. The consistent devotion to maintaining a d​aily practice, coupled with being held accountable to my growth goals really transforme​d my life in drastic ways. On a tangible level, I used Emergence as my commitment to mysel​f to enter the sacred sexuality field as a sexual healer. And it worked! I now am a sexual he​aler and am making more money from this than my main job and love what I do and feel ​I am making a positive difference in the world. Thank you for creating such a transformat​ive, beautiful offeri​ng."

- Katerina Phoenix (a gender non-binary trans person)

"My journey with Emergence was a deep and transformative experience. The container ​was welcoming and I felt safe to be vulnerable yet was challenged to stay true to my word ​and live up to my highest potential. I made many deep and lasting connections with the ​other brothers and know that at any time I could call on one of them for support. ​Especially impactful was the week-long retreat where we deeply dove into the floorboards ​of our psyches and supported each other in somatic-based emotional release sessions. ​The Emergence has been most impactful to me by helping me to courageously share my ​whole self with the world without fear or regret, so that I may have an even bigger and ​more beautiful impact on others.

- Sam Sadin

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We acknowledge the traditional indigenous custodians of the lands on which we share our work, and ​we pay our respects to Elders past, present and emerging.